Some of the most common traits that I experienced myself and that I see with my clients are:
I find that so many people do not realize what addiction does to them or to families. A marriage is not the only place addiction affects other people. Patterns built in an alcoholic home can affect adult co-workers, for example. The disease and behaviors run deep in families and these codependent behaviors are passed on for generations- it is often considered “normal” behavior. If you do happen to live with someone working toward recovery (or not) or be married to one, it can make life even more challenging.
I know it may be hard, but I am offering you a possibility to COMMIT TO YOUR SELF-CARE and start taking time for you and your healing by working with me and committing to a 6-month Intuitive Reiki Package. The person labeled as “the one with the addiction” is not the only one who has healing to do (and you can’t make them). You can only heal yourself. I am here to guide you in this process, if you are ready.
Commit to working with me and I will support you to:
I am committed to talking about recovery and how it affects loved ones, family members and friends when someone is working toward recovery. I have over 10 years of recovery myself, after realizing how much I was affected by the people in my life who were either working toward recovery (sobriety) or not even getting support around their addiction. And the healing is not over for me. As I like to say, we carry generations of patterns (energy) to release and realizations and clarity to be found. Sessions with me are relaxing, peaceful and rejuvenating. You release a lot, without having to talk about it or give me all the details. My clients find that they release so much that they become more clear on what they want from life, what they want to create, and how they can do that with the many tools available that you may not even know about!
Please check out the workshop, Set Boundaries with Compassion and Love to learn the tools.
I know how hard it is to put yourself first, but you don’t have to continue this pattern of codependency in your family lineage. For the sake of the 7 generations, you can heal and recover, even if your loved ones never find the path of recovery and healing.